Jan 27, 2012
Tough love to deal with procrastination
I always say to people that they should put procrastination off until tomorrow! I think most people procrastinate – it’s a strategy many of us use to put off doing the stuff we need to get done but are afraid we will fail or succeed at.
I was checking out paper.li, a great resource to publish a niche online newspaper about your interest if you are on Twitter and very simple to set up, when I came across this brilliant framed poster.
Sometimes you need to be tough on yourself to get out of the procrastination rut. Give yourself a good talking to and listen carefully. You also need to recognise the difference between procrastination and when you have just driven yourself so hard you have lost your mental energy. We are often intolerant of our perceived failures especially if we work from home. Remember one of the useful beliefs for blogging success – ‘There is no failure – only feedback’. It’s no good beating yourself up when you are already battered from a long day at the office.
Perhaps the point I’m trying to make is that we need to use both high challenge and high support in equal measure in order to maximise our performance and be as productive as we can be. Too much self challenge stresses us out. Too much support makes us too comfortable and leads to distraction and procrastination to fill the time.
So stop messing around and get on with it – and throw a bit of love into the mix.
Poster image thanks to Neil Humphrey of Studio Maximus






Andy Britnell
Jan 28, 2012 @ 18:54:49
Dealing with procrastination. What works – high challenge or high support? http://t.co/qIaTi5BB
sarah godsill
Jan 28, 2012 @ 22:12:50
Tough love to deal with procrastination http://t.co/UtwZzmqw
Caroline Talbott
Jan 30, 2012 @ 09:16:01
3 gr8 takes to get stuff done @andybritnell http://t.co/0uAAxDLc @lindseyhuckrack http://t.co/Vnbagyps @carocatalyst http://t.co/Jyw5tzkE
Andy Britnell
Jan 30, 2012 @ 11:44:43
3 gr8 takes to get stuff done @andybritnell http://t.co/0uAAxDLc @lindseyhuckrack http://t.co/Vnbagyps @carocatalyst http://t.co/Jyw5tzkE
Jan 31, 2012 @ 04:22:54
I am guilty of procrastinating sometimes but I make sure that I’d be able to go back on track and that I can do the best outcome when I return back to my work. It is not a good habit to procrastinate but sometimes I just feel lazy enough.
Thanks for sharing. 
Angel Collins invites you to read OSHA’s GHS Delayed at OMB – “Review Extended”
May 09, 2012 @ 10:17:39
Haha – thanks for lightening the mood Angel!
As I mentioned in a previous reply, procrastination is a strategy we play out for which we often have an unconscious escape route. We’ll procrastinate for a while, and then we might get bored, and then feel guilty, and then feel angry, and eventually we break out of it and start to do something.
It’s difficult to work it out sometimes but useful to know what breaks the spell!
Feb 01, 2012 @ 12:07:49
I have many of those mental burn out days. Procrastination happens mostly because the love is gone. So how does one rediscover that love. And even more importantly, is the rediscovered love as strong as it was when you first started out. I guess it’s the circle of life. You rise, you fall, you pick up yourself and keep on going…Thanks for the stern “stop messing around ” message.
Adeline invites you to read How to Create a Numbered List Column Wise in a Word Table
Feb 01, 2012 @ 13:04:35
That’s got me thinking Adeline – there could be a blog post in that statement. I think your ‘mostly’ rider is probably right. I still think fear has a lot to do with it which comes from old patterns of behaviour and limiting beliefs that no longer serve us.
It depends on your idea about what love is. Love is more than just a feeling – sometimes we have to be willing to compromise and do things we don’t particularly want to do to get to the end game. We have a relationship with our blog – sometimes we are close to it and the passion is strong. At other times we feel we are drifting apart from it. And that’s OK. As you point out it is all about the circle of life. We drift away, we drift back and as long as we don’t get disheartened when we don’t feel the love the relationship will get stronger!
On the other hand I might just be too idealistic
Thanks again Adeline for a thought provoking comment
Andy Britnell
Feb 03, 2012 @ 17:32:58
Get stuff done – by being tough with yourself. #Blogging tips from @seemanaboutblog http://t.co/qIaTi5BB
Feb 12, 2012 @ 12:29:06
Regarding framed poster – I would suggest you to buy Nike T-short of your favorite color, with their “Just do it!” and put it into the frame.
PS I am seriously thinking about making same poster for myself!
Kirya invites you to read Детская Одежда в Киеве
Feb 22, 2012 @ 11:37:29
Hi Kirya
Apologies for not responding sooner – I’m writing content for another blogger, editing screencasts, building a membership site and generally being very productive. So I am “Just Dong It”
On the internet speed of implementation is key.
Stay productive
Andy
Feb 17, 2012 @ 09:37:57
Procrastination may result in stress, a sense of guilt and crisis, severe loss of personal productivity, as well as social disapproval for not meeting responsibilities or commitments.
May 09, 2012 @ 10:13:25
That’s a bit harsh
but there is a lot of truth in it.
Procrastination is a personal strategy and when the chips are down we will get moving. Failing to meet responsibilities and commitments is probably more down to lack of motivation or lack of capability to delver a task.
Thanks for bringing a different perspective to the discussion.
Feb 21, 2012 @ 20:16:40
I have found when I am in the lazy mood the only thing that works is some tough love. I just have to make myself get on with it, no other options for getting things done in my experience.
Matt Kinsella invites you to read Think Like a Dog and be Happy
Feb 22, 2012 @ 11:32:35
Thanks for popping by Matt.
You’re right. Often you just have to search inside for that extra resource to get you going again. Sometimes you need an inspring picture of what you are going to achieve, sometimes getting a sense of what it would feel like if you failed and sometimes you just need to give yourself a good talking to.
Or you just have to remind yourself that it makes sense to carry on.
Apr 11, 2012 @ 14:22:02
Love thsi post. I think procrastination is quite bad, especially in terms of blogging. I believe that procrastination can lead to you neglecting your blog, which in essence is neglecting your readers, your platform and essentially neglecting your passion. I love the line “Sometimes you need to be tough on yourself to get out of the procrastination rut.” I agree. It’s best you shake yourself out of that rut before you fall into it and can’t climb out.
Michelle invites you to read Tablet Sales Set To Jump 98% This Year
Apr 23, 2012 @ 11:10:15
That’s right Michelle – nothing worse than neglecting your readers and your passion. A groove can turn into a rut very easily so self awareness about when we are falling into one is essential.
Thanks for dropping by and leaving a comment
May 03, 2012 @ 11:31:59
Great, I like your way to explain it, thank for sharing..:)
Rudi invites you to read Diät-Programme
Aug 02, 2012 @ 01:15:11
I am the master of procrastination!!! The master, I said. I hope I’ll change this..
Nov 16, 2012 @ 11:11:27
This post couldn’t have come along at a better time for me, Andy. I was even considering putting a block on Facebook and Twitter on my laptop so I could get some work done. I finally shut both of them down…and am now spending some time reading through your posts instead
Guilty, as charged
Nov 22, 2012 @ 12:43:15
Hi Trinity
It’s tough to get down to work when there are so many distractions. I’m flattered that you consider the time to read through my posts a more productive activity
Thanks for leaving so many comments. I’ll get round to responding to them all soon.
We are all guilty of procrastination at some time or other. It may not be so obvious as work though – some may procrastinate about having an important conversation with someone, showing that they love someone or reaching out to an old friend they haven’t talked to for a while!
Nov 20, 2012 @ 09:15:39
Stop Dicking around and get on with it…this may become my new life motto!
Nov 22, 2012 @ 12:02:35
Hahaha – perhaps I’ll have it inscribed on my gravestone!
Morten Liell
Nov 21, 2012 @ 23:37:36
I just left a comment on Tough love to deal with procrastination at See a Man About a Blog http://t.co/TEZKHJLq via @seemanaboutblog
Nov 21, 2012 @ 23:37:52
Spot on! I procrastinate things now and then, and I usually know when I do so, but sometimes I also burn myself out – like the last couple of weeks. I made a decision today to go to bed earlier than usual and getting up earlier than usual because I got to bed way too late (early?) yesterday. The time was 9 AM before I could get myself to bed! I had set some goals for myself that I felt I had to finish, but when the cost of that is waking up 20 minutes before I’m supposed to be at work, it’s simply not worth it. Even though we might have a lot of things that needs to be done, we also need to realize that even though we have a lot of things to do, we might need to focus on the importance of getting some rest before we’ve come to the point that we’re burned out. Procrastination is not a good trait, but there’s a huge difference between procrastination and knowing when you need to rest. Thanks for the reminder. I’ll definantly be sure to get to bed earlier tonight!
(dofollow)
Morten Liell invites you to read Protecting Your Subconscious Mind
Nov 22, 2012 @ 11:52:59
Hi Morten
Yes, there is an important distinction between procrastination and your body telling you that you need to slow down a little and get some R & R! If you don’t listen to the subtle nudges it gives you eventually your unconscious mind will give you something to really slow you down, like a cold or the flu!
Often when I let go and give myself a break from work by taking a day off, I find that I have an email or message enquiring about work.
Hope you get tucked in early tonight
Nov 23, 2012 @ 21:50:00
I did go to bed earlier that night and it felt really nice. I woke up with no alarm at 6:45 AM, starting to work on my business before I headed off to work. I had a great feeling within after that!
I see what you mean. Last night I turned off my phone for once, and when I woke up there was a lot more e-mails, calls, notifications and so on waiting for me than when my phone is constantly turned on. Weird, but I like it!
Morten Liell invites you to read 10 Tips to Improve Your Daily Life
Nov 24, 2012 @ 13:52:59
Cool – magic can happen when you change your habits!